Sunday, July 20, 2014

Katie Writes: New Growth & Puppy Love

          Ok. It's been awhile since either Mom or I have checked in, so hello again! A new season has overcome us and we are basking in another glorious Seattle summer. Seattlites may or may not have been known to tell non Seattlites that it ONLY rains around these parts...our effort to keep outsiders away has worked thus far! It's been 82 and sunny and I just can't get enough! This summer started out slowly. I was so excited to come home after a very stressful end to the school year. I had exhausted myself out so egregiously that I had given myself a thyroid disorder where my body literally thought I was in "flight" mode 24/7, it was AWFUL! Twitchy eyes, fast heart beat, inability to sleep, no thank you. Once that was dunzo, I could finally enjoy my summer, right? Wrong. I was caught up in yet another unhealthy infatuation back in California, hoping the distance wouldn't change anything. Wrong. Another dud, what're you gonna do? Unfortunately it took me almost half the summer to say, "adios" to this one. Another season wasted on a jerk? Come on, Katie...get it together! 
           For my summer job, I'm working as a nanny. I nanny a 10 month old cutie pie, Zack two days a week for 8 hours on those days. Let me tell you, the kid's adorable but being in an empty house with someone who sleeps most of the day and who doesn't answer my pressing relationship questions can leave a girl with a lot of thoughts! Why isn't he texting me? Is Crossfit seriously cooler than me? Is Crossfit seriously cooler than everything?  Yuck. Someone needs to re-evaluate herself...

          Although little Zack doesn't say much (he is finally kind of saying, "ball"...more like "bah" hey! I'll take it, "Ls" are hard!) he does bring me so much joy and I love his little hugs. I've watched him go from scooting around the floor to standing and even walking! He took 5 steps last Friday and only stopped because we were both so excited. Watching kids learn new things is probably my favorite part about nannying. I taught him how to clap, blow kisses, wave good bye, give raspberries on my leg and other various useful mannerisms that he will use for the rest of his life! Not a day goes by I don't blow raspberries on at least one person's leg. I'm glad this little man could bring me so much simple joy when once again some loser was causing me so much heartache.
            Long sad phone calls, a couple tears, plane tickets purchased and plane tickets refunded and here I am again, back from the edge of the limb, safe, alone and happy. Just a quick side note, you cannot change someone and the way someone treats you is a reflection on THEM. You can be the juiciest peach in the world but some people are only fascinated with the way peaches bruise. Anyway, the title of this blog post is "New Growth" because here I am reflecting once again on who I am, how I really want to fit into this world and the new growth I've experienced as of late. As I reflect, three certain "growths" (that sounds gross) have really stood out to me. Of course there is Zack, who I try to install good character in every Monday and Thursday hoping it will translate into him being a perfect gentleman in the future...although currently he loves to slap my boobs and clap afterwards...I guess it's a work in progress! His growth amazes me, and reminds me how much I love the career path I'm headed in and how perfect young innocence is. The second little growing baby comes in the form of a hound. As I watch my brand new golden retriever puppy, Bia sleeping next to me as I type, I'm taking a deep breath in the wonderful way people, decisions, feelings and puppies grow and change every single day. 
         
  Anyone who knows me knows that golden retrievers are my favorite dog in the world. I knew I would become a golden puppy mommy at some point and had no idea I would find my dream dog so soon. Bia (Bee-ya) found me at the most perfect time. A vulnerable time when literally all I wanted to do was take care of something, nurture something and spill all of this unrequited love into something...or someone who would love me back unconditionally. People are a bit risky, and while I have no problem at all with loving without fear, there's just nothing questionable or risky about loving a dog. I've gone out on a few too many limbs lately and now it's time to reel it in and let my "love tank" fill back up. I knew she was "the one" as soon as I saw her. Darker red in color like the goldens I grew up with...long legged, furrowed brow, big beautiful mom and dad, I needed her! Her breeder lives in San Diego and on an airplane she arrived. As soon as I took her out of her little traveling crate at United Airline cargo shipping grounds, my life seriously changed forever. I didn't realize how quickly I could fall in love with my first little furry baby, but I think she fell in love with me just as fast. I've had puppies before, our dachshunds Lizzie and Moo, but I was never the one taking them out to potty at 3:58 a.m. or singing them to sleep when they were whimpering in the car. That's love, let me tell you!  
              So far on our 8 day long relationship, we've learned a lot about each other. We both love to run (together!!). We love cuddles, kisses and Jack Johnson's voice to cure our sad cries. While little B is physically growing every day (her legs are seriously so LONG!), her heart grows too. Our hearts grow for each other, and like I told our other dogs...love doesn't divide, it multiplies! New family members mean more love! Isn't that something? Love multiplies and it's the most important new growth in our life of all. Now I understand why my mom could never answer when I would ask her who she loved more between my brother and me, ha! Sorry, Mom. Little Miss Bia has reminded me of how full of love my heart is and how quickly I can love again and how fast it can grow. This new surge of growth of love in my life is exhilarating. It's a pretty remarkable thing that one person can bring you down so low and the very next day you can find a new corner in your heart for a brand new love. It saddens me when people are heartbroken and decide to stay that way. I believe it's a common misconception that heartbreaks steal love that you can never get back. Maybe I have short term memory problems, or am too impressionable, but I wouldn't want to be any other way. 
               If only people would love each other like dogs love us. My favorite quote from the movie and book, Marley & Me says this, “A dog has no use for fancy cars or big homes or designer clothes. Status symbol means nothing to him. A waterlogged stick will do just fine. A dog judges others not by their color or creed or class but by who they are inside. A dog doesn't care if you are rich or poor, educated or illiterate, clever or dull. Give him your heart and he will give you his. It was really quite simple, and yet we humans, so much wiser and more sophisticated, have always had trouble figuring out what really counts and what does not."

              I so badly want people to love with the first intuition, exuberance and loyalty that dogs do; In the relentless way that is so apparent on Bia's face when she comes running toward me. Dogs are a wonderful example of simple joy and fearless love. So many of us have a dog or have experienced their love, yet humans still can't manage to love so endlessly...Why is that? 
             For me, summer 2014 was one for the books. Not for the wild nights or short-lived, steamy fall-expiration dated romances, but for the decisions I've had to make in letting go once again, and the decision to welcome love back another time in a new way for my new fluffy little best friend and anyone else who belongs in my love path. It was a summer of coordinating apartment move-ins from three states away, purchasing big girl items like bowls and plates (for my first apartment!) creating new adult relationships with family members I hadn't seen in 11 years, and most of all reaffirming my belief in love no matter how many times a heart breaks. "I've been dating since I was 14!! Where is he!?" is no longer what I scream at my mom (ha ha). All in due time, Katie.
              So cheers to new growth, accepting new challenges with an open heart and welcoming love back. Hey! It's a dog-love-dog world right?

         




Saturday, March 22, 2014

Katie Writes: A Collection Thus Far...

Happy Spring Everyone!


I can’t believe that it’s almost the end of March already! I’ve decided to do a quick report on a collection of the amazing products, foods, ideas, places and some other things that I’ve found thus far in our still pretty new year.


FOOD
(In case I lose you later on, I’ll begin with food so we can at least get that in)

 Mangos:

            I’ve become obsessed. I get mine at Trader Joe’s for $1.29 each or at Stater Brothers for $0.69 each. To me, price doesn’t matter because 1. Two mangos last me a whole week and 2. Their deliciosity makes them priceless. When choosing your mangos, go for the ones that “give a little” when you squeeze them; kind of like a ripe peach! They should also smell fruity— I actually do stand in the produce section sniffing all of the mangos they’ve got! Mangos DO ripen more after you bring them home, especially if you put them near apples (science). Now, cutting them is really the only tricky part, but after my mama taught me how to over spring break, I’m a pro. Here's my DIY mango slicing tutorial haha!

Mangos have a long pit sort of thing in the middle but it’s more like an organically shaped knot. To cut a mango, first hold the fruit vertically with one hand like so: 
(My hands looked gross so for the photo I did this...but really use your whole hand)












             With a sharp knife, I prefer serrated, start at the top, in the middle and cut downward very slowly, feeling this knot with your knife and gliding the blade around it. You can feel it not cut as smoothly when you hit this knot and it sort of makes a scratchy sound. Once you have a section cut off, hold it in non-dominate hand with the peal side against your palm.


 

              Gently use the knife to cut vertical lines on this section of mango, then go back over them cross-hatching horizontally so you have little cubes but DON’T GO THROUGH THE PEEL! Be careful! No cutting your hands!



          









                   
                   Put the knife down, then invert the mango piece so it looks like a “little armadillo” as my mom says. Then shave the chunks off with your knife. Continue to do this until it’s all gone, but be very careful because mangoes are super slippery and I don’t want you to cut yourself after you run out of peel to grip!
































Also, sucking on the knotty center is the BEST part!!

What I’ve been putting mango in:

Plain:

·                 simple is as simple does


Smoothies:
·                  1/4-1/2 of the mango is usually a good amount
·                   I like them with grapefruit, kiwi & berries especially.
      Salads:
·                   My favorite salad right now is baby spinach, grilled tofu or chicken, avocado, & mango with oil and vinegar as dressing.
Grilled:
·                    Add them into an omelet (avocado, lox, and spinach accompany mango perfectly)
·                    Add them to salsa, like pico de gallo

YUM


*NOTE: I like to eat eclectic food flavors all at the same time, so if the fruit with meat thing gets you, just ignore!


 Lavender:

            I’ve always loved the scent of lavender. My mom used to put lavender oil on my pillows and in my baths when I was little. I still love lavender scented lotion, body wash and Epsom salts. However, it wasn’t until a trip to Portland in January that I discovered that I love eating it too! At this adorable little how should I say…fabulously mysterious hipsterish café/restaurant/fondue/bar called The Pied Cow I had a lavender & honey soy milk steamer. It was seriously the best beverage I think I’ve consumed this year so far (and then some)! There were pieces of lavender buds on top that gave it the perfect underlying taste of lavender. I’m pretty sure I would drive all the way to Portlandia just for this drink. THEN upon returning to Redlands, a co-worker suggested a café called, The Queen Bean in Yucaipa. There, I had a lavender soy latte that was also to die for. SO I decided I could make this on my own! I did my research, purchased FOOD GRADE lavender oil (not essential oil) from PCC back home (you can get it on amazon as well). About  $10.00 for 3 ounces is typical. And now I add it to EVERYTHING! Coffee, lemonade, tea, water, smoothies, even my egg whites. Anything! It’s so yummy and it only adds a tiny hint of flavor, which I love. It makes ordinary foods and drinks extra special. Life’s too short to eat boring food—spice it up people!

            Almond Butter:

            Hi I’m Katie and I’m addicted to almond butter. It’s my kryptonite. I could eat almond butter all day every day. It's very healthy--if you do it right. I always make sure to get organic and unsalted almond butter, brands like like Maranatha or the Trader Joe’s brand. These brands use ONLY almonds. That’s it! That’s the only ingredient. How relaxing is it to check out a label and see ONE thing...that you know how to pronounce! Other brands put cane sugar, salt and other mysterious ingredients in them, so make sure to look at the ingredients list before purchasing to make sure you know exactly what you’re getting out of bed at 3am for ;) I honestly eat it with just a spoon. It curbs my sweet tooth and gives me energy for pre and post workouts. Just two tablespoons has 7 grams of protein, only 6 carbs and 4 grams of fiber! Yes there is fat, but it’s the good kind of fat that gives you lasting energy! I also lovvvve the texture. Since I don’t eat bread or any grains, I don’t generally put my almond butter on anything, except bananas and apples, but I bet it would be delicious on a bagel or piece of toast!

**Sorry there's no pictures of my almond butter because I ate it all


BEAUTY PRODUCTS

Burt’s Bees Carrot Day Cream:

            This little jar is densely packed with the most lusciously thick and dreamy face cream you can think of. My mom bought it for herself and I borrowed it (of course) when I got home over spring break. It’s amazing! It smells heavenly but not really like carrots, if anything, carrot cake. I don’t use it during the day even though it is “day cream” just because it is a little thick. Instead I lather it onto my face, neck and hands before I go to bed. Being in dry SoCal, especially in an air-conditioned house, my skin gets so dry so quick! During the night it is crucial for me to moisturize. I layer 3 different moisturizers on just to make sure my skin is dewy in the morning. This cream is the last one that I apply because I love how good it smells and it feels like it locks in the others with its thick dreaminess haha.

 Tea Tree Oil:

             I actually discovered this back in high school when girls in my class were getting lice (EW) and I was so paranoid of it happening to me. Mom researched lice and apparently those nasty little buggers hate tea tree oil! It’s actually an antiseptic. I use 100% Australian Tea Tree Oil. I simply use a q-tip or cotton ball and dab it mostly on my acne prone areas. I also put it on any skin irritations or red spots. The scent is REALLY strong so be aware of that, but I love the effects. It quickly takes out any redness and keeps bacteria away!


Coppertone Sport Sunscreen:

            Going to school down here, it took me about .000001 seconds to find the importance of SPF. MOST, not all but most (older) SoCali natives have one thing in common: their SKIN, Leathery, wrinkled, spotted and terrifying for that matter. I refuse to let this be my skin. Before I greet the sun...or the partly cloudy for that matter--ok every day I apply a dime size amount of Neutrogena oil free moisturizer SPF 15 on my face and neck. Then I use SPF 15 foundation makeup, SPF 15 Sugar Fresh chapstick and lastly my Coppertone. After I’m dressed, I use this SPF 30 clear spray on any revealed skin.  You could say I apply sunscreen like it’s my second job (erhm 4th); I’m obsessed. Now the reason why I love Coppertone so much is because obviously it protects my skin, but it ALSO, makes my skin glow. It adds a shimmer that makes my skin look healthy and dewy (not greasy at all). On top of it, the smell of sunscreen soothes my aching soul and reminds me that a future of a leather neck is more and more unlikely. Skin care is SO crucial to me and it’s something to take very seriously! Please please please use SPF. Tan skin looks OK, but healthy skin looks radiantly beautiful.


PLACES

(dining apparently)

Redlands:

            Dining local in Redlands is sometimes hard to get started. I find myself wanting to go to what's familiar, like Starbucks or Panera but Heska's is a local café on Lugonia right in Mentone! It’s a tiny little hole in the wall local place. They have breakfast foods, sandwiches, pastries and COFFEE! Heska, who owns it remembers you by name and is going to help one of my organizations with our next fundraiser! The atmosphere is almost beach house like, with vintage furniture, creaky wood floors and outdoor seating! Perfect place to study, talk to someone new or grab a coffee to go.

Los Angeles:

            Simply to die for. I came across this restaurant and bakery through one of my old high school classmates who posted something about it on Facebook. I began following Bottega and every photo was mouth watering—especially the macarons. I finally went! I enjoyed DELICIOUS macarons in rose, vanilla and earl grey flavors (they really taste exactly like those), giant yogurt covered pretzels, Gelato, and a soy latte. The macarons and pretzels were to-go—don’t worry I didn’t eat that all in one sitting! The atmosphere is really fun with lots of people, and by people I mean young handsome waiters with undercuts. You can wait to be seated in the restaurant or casually drop by and grab an available table outside the bar and bakery. Everything was so intricately presented and it tasted SO delicious.
 


MENTALITIES
These are a few mentalities that I’ve adapted recently and I’m finding myself happier now that I have them



1.     Not talking badly about your exes
                 I personally admire the different guys I’ve dated in my past. Since it’s been so long since I’ve been with these guys, I find myself mostly remembering the good times and looking back on those relationships with positive nostalgia. I think talking garbage about the people you’ve dated reflects poorly on you. It’s OK to say nice things about your exes! It doesn’t mean you’re weak, or that you want to be with them again. It shows that you are proud of the decisions you’ve made and that you’ve learned from your past experiences. There was a reason why you liked them in the first place, HELLO!


2.     Missing people and praying for people who are not meant to be in your life
                 It’s OK to know that someone isn’t right for you or doesn’t add meaning to your life or butterflies to your heart and it’s equally OK to miss certain things about them and to pray for their well being. If someone doesn’t treat you right, it’s a reflection on them as a person—not you. Don’t be embarrassed to miss someone terribly—even those dirt bags who hurt you or the guy you haven’t seen in years. I say embrace it, missing people, in my opinion, feels really good.

3.     Telling people what you need and what you want
                  I’m sure you’ve heard this one before, but recently I’ve found that it can be very true. If you think someone is great, tell him or her! If you see someone talking badly about someone behind their back, stick up for them. Guys and girls are EQUALLY gossipy and mean to one another and it’s repulsive. Stand up for people; you only have to do it once. If you need someone to speak to you in a certain way, tell them! One example is this (and I won't say any names), I was headed to the airport and these two guys from my school drove me. For some reason they were being incredibly sarcastic and rude in our conversation and asking condescending questions about what I've been doing. After a few minutes of this, I said, "Can you stop being so condescending and rude?" and they did! They weren't offended...I think they were taken back that I can stand up for myself but they stopped and we had a great conversation to follow.

4.     Talking to strangers
          I encourage this WHOLE heartedly. I can’t tell you how much fun it is to go anywhere and know that I will probably meet someone new. I think my best examples come from the airport, but I tend to talk to people wherever I go, (that Chipotle line can get so long sometimes, what else am I going to do? Be on my phone?) Anyways, back to the airport. I’ve literally met some of the coolest people there and on my flights. There was the one guy from Sacramento who was an architect for the Deaf School in Riverside…hello! Right up my academic alley. There was the guy from Issaquah who went to my rival high school and who’s grandkids currently go to my elementary school. There was the woman from Claremont who was a language school teacher in Thailand. She met her husband there and still works in linguistics! We got to talk about how children under the age of two have a universal ear and can hear variations in language that people older than that cannot! That’s why raising your child bilingual is relatively easy. Let’s see…I met the cutest Redlands alum at the Starbucks in Oakland and thank goodness I did because our next flight was cancelled and I got to talk with him for a few hours to kill time. There was the old man from the Bay Area who was buying a boat and didn’t know what to name it, the retired woman moving to Texas for the hell of it…SO many! I feel blessed to have encountered these people and remember their faces so clearly. What I love most about this is that we ALL had something in common and I couldn’t believe how many people encouraged my major and loved what I plan on doing for the rest of my life. Many of them were in similar fields themselves! Bottom line: talk to strangers. Get to know the people who are physically around you & get off your phone so you can do so.

5.     “At least it’s not…” 
                   This one my mom taught me 100%. I can remember a very perfect example to show how amazing this mentality is. Over Christmas break, I was driving to the gym with her and there was this grumpy couple on a walk together. It was raining and they looked miserable. I said, “Wow they look grumpy!” and my mom said, “At least it’s not snowing!” How perfect. I’ve 100% adopted my mom’s eternal optimism, and thank goodness! She is the QUEEN of turning any situation into a positive one.  It can always be worse. Remember that.


COLORS


Lilac:

             Lilac is such a wonderful color. It’s fresh, clean, and springy. It looks good on anyone too! My amazing co-worker Rachael and I are obsessed. We both have green eyes and it really brings them out. I can't think of anyone who wouldn't look great in lilac!
  
Shorts: 
$45 at J. Crew 
Clutch:
$128 at Anthropologie
Tank:
$16 at Victoria’s Secret (sport)

 


MOVIES

It Happened One Night:

            Suggested to me by someone very near and dear to my little heart (if you’re reading this, you can say, “I told you so”...but just once!) This movie is apparently the first romantic comedy and it’s just darling. Starring Claudette Colbert (perfection) and Clark Gable (captivating), It Happened One Night is a black and white and it’s hilarious, raunchy, witty and I adore it. Basically, the daughter of a rich and famous man runs away and meets this guy on a train. Weather and other circumstances prevent them from getting where they’re headed and they are pretty much stuck with each other until they fall in love! I would watch it again and again and again but next time maybe with someone handsome, fantastic and cuddly. It can be rented for 24 hours on iTunes for just $3.99! Worth it! 









LAST BUT NOT LEAST

The Jar:

               On January 1st I decorated a giant mason jar and bought a ton of nice uniform paper construction paper. Every single day so far this year, I’ve written down something good that’s happened that day. Whether it’s an A on an exam, meeting someone wonderful, my crush texting me, running further and faster, or simply the weather. There is ALWAYS something good to write down. I do it every single night before I go to bed and it allows me to reflect on my day and go to bed with a smile on my face thinking about the good things that have added up. Even if my day all together wasn't great, my coffee might have been! I can’t wait to dump out my jar on December 31st 2014 and read 365 + good things that happened over my year. I would HIGHLY suggest doing this and doing it faithfully. To be quite frank, a lot of you reading this are probably mentioned in my jar!